No, buying "more" trinkets will not work.
Begin with eye contact to connect and relax with your partner so that she is receptive to your advances. Touch is the master. Massage is a non-threatening healing way to assure her you are there to serve and protect as well as get your own needs met. Release of stress helps a couple get close safe and intimate with caring and opens the doorway to pleasure for both partners. Use a natural massage oil because it will probably get in contact with vaginal fluids. Some of the most natural oils are olive and grapeseed oils.
The bedroom is all about sexuality and emotions. It is no place for logical discourse.
Spraying occurs when the orgasm is intense. Generally, when a woman squirts, she cannot move, she is lost in ecstasy. For this to be possible, we need the blood flowing in the whole body, that’s why the massage has to get really intimate. Have your partner not only work your back, but also especially the areas that are important to sexual stimulation: the pubic bone, the inner thighs (you will find an incredible amount of tension there most of the times) and the buttocks. Check the area around the breasts too, sometimes there is also some tension to be found. Go all the way down the legs and up the neck. If you find tense spots, massage them thoroughly, untill the tension is gone, theskin area turns red (red area means increased blood-flow! But not all humans go red through massage, it really depends on the individual) you have at least worked the spot for quite some minutes. Sometimes tensions are just to deep to be removed in one session. This can make the actual squirting “fail” but then again there’s a reason why most people need a number of sessions before accomplishing the squirting orgasms.
As the male who initiates and controls the experience, here is a perspective you might wish to consider before proceeding with your advances.
X claims:
I give my girlfriend clitoral orgasms all the time until she can no longer stand them, no issue here. I love the feel of her love on my face and so does she as long as I've shaved and recently showered. Make sure your fingernails are trim and smooth (for her pleasure...)! But she has never had a vaginal orgasm.
So I've been using the deepspot technique. She gets really close, but then she says she has to pee and runs to the bathroom. I tell her, "That is not pee, that is your Skein glands trying to ejaculate." When she goes go to relieve herself it is a clear liquid with no scent. It is of course ejaculation fluid. So, before my girlfriend and I go into the bedroom, I always make sure she urinates. She has a fear of wetting the bed and therefore no ejaculation and therefore no vaginal orgasm. I really want to give her vaginal orgasms.
Deepspot: http://masterful-lover.com/blog/deep-spot-orgasms/the-official-deep-spot-video/
She is a woman that has 100% surrendered to me, no issue here, I am the Master!
Dr. Love says:
She has NOT 100% surrendered to you. She holds back. Leave the Skene glands discussion for the living room.
Remember this...
In the bedroom do NOT debate with her. In the bedroom do NOT have logical discourse with her. Instead, you must LEAD! This is especially true at the very highest level of arousal; when she is right on the verge of coming. Do that “come hither motion” with your fuck finger. Start with medium pressure to get her used to it. If she responds well, be firmer. The better she responds, the firmer you apply. If you want to be the Master, here is what you need to do... When she is right on the verge of coming, you need to yell at her loudly: "I want you to piss all over the fucking bed!" You must LEAD. You must COMMAND. You must override her self-consciousness and doubt. You must be more powerful than her sabotaging thoughts. You must assure her, acknowledge and bring her there. You absolutely MUST get vaginal orgasms working for her to unequivocally love you! And you absolutely MUST get them working during intercourse.
Remember, if you don't give her vaginal orgasms in intercourse, you have NOTHING.
So if you’re a fan of female ejaculation, it’s just a matter of if you know how to make spray in bed. Other possibilities include: Cunnilingus (oral sex for women) is one of the easiest ways to make a woman orgasm. Most women love cunnilingus orgasm easily, and if you give it a few strokes of good lingue she will respond quickly. Creating intense presence and feeling on the vaginal walls with soft friction of his penis, the vaginal walls are high in the tissues of the clitoris and the transfer of all the pressure on the clitoris when the penis rubs against the walls escalates. Men whose disadvantage is a penis with less girth might consider a french tickler or ribbed condom, which is (ribbed for her pleasure...). If you ejaculate as soon as sex begins, you will not see her orgasm into squirt. Strong and sustainable presence enough to cause friction on the walls of the vagina, will release her jets in bed. On the other end, anal-only girls are often rewarded with squirting orgasms..
Having a man give a whole-body squirting orgasm to a woman will create a very deep emotional bond this has been confirmed to me over and over again. Using this on one-night stands will absolutely backfire on all parties involved, so please use this responsibly. This can be used to incredibly deepen the bond and the intimacy in a relationship but it can also break hearts. I suggest developing a real solid connection in a partnership before attempting to learn how to squirt.
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