Beautiful tits and ass, you have to remember, are one reason for living, but it does not mean that you can avoid actual conversation. If you just met a girl at the bar and you had a great time together better make sure that when you try to conjugate with her; do not just have sex. Majority of men use sex as an excuse because it is the safer than to actually communicate with women. Although a lot of men practice this avoidance, it does not mean that it is entirely acceptable. There are certain situations where sex is better than coming. There are two sides to the coin regarding this matter.
In giving sex massages you have time to think and plan on what to do with your woman over sex, this is probably the biggest advantage that you can get. Some say just to listen and let her tell you what to do. Guys are more confident in giving sex massages rather than getting them. If your goal for sex is to score, then it is much better to give her a ball and invite her to a movie. Another advantage of sex with a woman is that you cannot understand her, but the massage easily most easily facilitates intimacy if you are talking to a foreign lady like beautiful Asian women who no spearkwer der ingrish.
On the other hand, sex is not nearly as romantic compared as calling her over for a massage. More often than not, massages are misinterpreted by the receiver as simply a massage; and you can also misinterpret her massage to you too. Giving sex messages may seem to be very convenient to do for most guys.Unlike in conversation wherein you are required to have a small talk before you can ask a girl for a fuck; you can skip that in sex. Your massage will get her wet. Then you may go straight to the point like if you want her to suck you off. This would not waste so much of her time in what seems to become an endless exchange of sex massages or complimentary orgasms. If you massage her yoni or give her some cunnilingus, she recognizes you are thinking of her or that you might even care about her. Once she lets you have foreplay and she agrees to have sex with you, begin to plan your moves. Get important information such as where does she like to be touched and in what way. Do not ask to many questions which are not relevant to her because it might get on her nerves.
However, if she continues to give you massages to get you excited; then by all means reply to her massages. It is an opportunity for you to engage in casual sex with her. This You sex conversation could also be your point of reference when you eat her person. However, if raping her pussy is not part of your immediate plans yet; then you can just focus your sex conversation on getting to know her. Make sure that you do not tell her offensive jokes, just keep you sex conversation light, interesting and funny. Now that the door is open you’re going to act casual and nonchalant, but not uninterested, nor indifferent. To let you come she needs to know that all you are interested in is her, not simply remembering your ex-girlfriend.
As a general rule, you apply her massage observing how long it took her to respond to your massages. This is a good indication of how long you will have to fuck her to inorder for her to achieve orgasm. Avoid sarcasm or boring comments like "How are you doing?" This type of massage will not make you stand out among the other guys who are also giving sex messages to the lady that you are pursuing. Hence it is very important that you have something interesting to say or show her; a guide on what to talk to girls about over sex will be very useful, rather than local gossip or the evening news. Here are some clues:
You seem like a girl who has her finger on her pussy, tell me your top three spots to go down on you on. Or have you ever tried it from behind? I hear it increases the intensity when you orgasm...
Is she genuinely interested in hearing specifics about your car going vrooom!?? The more effective question is “What does your engine sound like, baby?”
Now get on a doll and start fucking her senseless. The kind of woman of whom Heinlein said (I'm paraphrasing here) "After you got to know her, you realized she was beautiful after all..."
Tantra massage is a healing touch that helps to circulate your sexual energy in to whole body so you could be able to achieve whole body orgasms. There are many ways to do this. However, there is a way that is how women relax and it comes in the form of an Erotic Tantric Massage. Tantric massage can free your mind from the stress of daily life and melt away tension, thus increasing your chances of achieving a bed-shattering orgasm.
This female genital intimate massage is helping more and more women discover the art of sensual massage and learn to relax in their lives. Tantra massage is something that more and more women are discovering as a way to not only relax, but to find the joys and highs of being intimate with someone and trust through an erotic massage. The act of Tantra involves balancing energies within the channels of the body. During the act of tantra, the kundalini rises within it. When this happens the individuals are completely dissolved in the unity of cosmic consciousness. In Tantra, a women’s genital area is called ‘Yoni’, which means ‘sacred place.’ Throughout Tantra massages, it is important to relax, slow down and admire every inch of the female body. The masseur performing the female genital intimate massage go over every part of the body, not just the genitals in the massage, respecting and loving all of it, not to mention the part between the legs. This is the best way to perform the massage and show the love and relaxation that comes with it. The woman will begin to feel more and more pleasure as the masseur begins to explore and discover every single inch of her. It is important to understand that this massage is not only for pleasure, but it has several health benefits for the woman, including stress-reduction. When the woman has suffered through a long day of work and needs a way to unwind, there is no better way than this. Through the erotic massage, stress can decrease greatly and feelings of well-being and pleasure will overwhelm the body. This is a great way to help heal the body as the human body heals much better when it is happy, rather than depressed, stressed or sad.
What Would Ghandi Do?
Before beginning the massage, you should gaze into each other’s eyes while embracing and engaging in deep, relaxed, synchronized breathing. By doing this, the giver and receiver connect on a deep level, creating openness and the ground on which the yoni massage will grow. Both the giver and receiver should remember to keep breathing deeply, slowly, and with relaxation during the entire process.
Have the receiver lie on her back with pillows under her head so she can look down at her genitals and up at her partner (giver). Place a pillow, covered with a towel, under her hips. Her legs are to be spread apart with the knees slightly bent (pillows or cushions under the knees will also help) and her genitals clearly exposed for the massage. This position allows full access to the Yoni and other parts of the body. Before contacting the body, begin with deep, relaxed breathing. Both giver and receiver should remember to breathe deeply, slowly and with relaxation during the entire process. The giver will gently remind the receiver to start breathing again if the receiver stops or begins to take shallower breaths. Deep breathing, not hyperventilating, is most important.
Gently massage the legs, abdomen, thighs, breasts, etc., to encourage the receiver to relax and for the giver to prepare for touching her Yoni. Pour a small quantity of a high-quality oil or lubricant on the mound of the Yoni. Pour just enough so that it drips down the outer lips and covers the outside of the Yoni. Begin gently massaging the mound and outer lips of the Yoni. Spend time here and do not rush. Relax and enjoy giving the massage. Gently squeeze the outer lip between the thumb and index finger, and slide up and down the entire length of each lip. Do the same to the inner lips of the Yoni/vagina. Take your time. It is helpful for giver and receiver to look into each other's eyes as much as possible. The receiver should tell the giver if the pressure, speed, depth, etc. need to be increased or decreased. Limit your conversation and focus on the pleasurable sensation, too much talking will diminish the effect.
The Yoni Massage
The clitoris is an amazingly complex structure, similar in function to the male's glans, but surprisingly - up to four times more sensitive. The glans portion of the clitoris holds 6,000 - 8,000 sensory nerve endings, more than any other structure in the human body. This hypersensitive node has only one purpose: pleasure. Nothing exceeds its ability to receive and transmit sensations of touch, pressure or vibration. The glans are the "crown jewel" of the clitoral system! Stroke the clitoris with clockwise and counter-clockwise circles. Gently squeeze it between thumb and index fingers. Do this as a massage and not to get the receiver off. The receiver will undoubtedly become very aroused but continue to encourage her to relax and breathe.
Slowly and with great care, insert the middle finger of your right hand into the Yoni (there is a reason for using the right hand as opposed to the left. It has to do with polarity in Tantra).
Very gently explore and massage the inside of the Yoni with this finger. Take your time, be gentle, and feel up, down and sideways. Vary the depth, speed and pressure. It is important to remember that this is a massage in which you are nurturing and relaxing the Yoni. With your palm facing up, and the middle finger inside the Yoni, move the middle finger in a "come here" gesture or crook back towards the palm. You will contact a spongy area of tissue just under the pubic bone, behind the clitoris. This is the G-spot or in Tantra, "the sacred spot". She may feel the need to urinate, experience a little discomfort or most hopefully pleasure. Vary the pressure, speed and pattern of movement. You can move side to side, back and forth, or in circles with your middle finger. You can also insert the finger that's between your middle finger and pinky. Moist women should have no problem and will enjoy the increased stimulation from two fingers. Take your time and be very gentle.
You may use the thumb of the right hand to stimulate the clitoris as well. An option to try if the receiver wants it is to insert the pinky of the right hand into her anus. [In Tantra, it is said that when your pinky is gently massaging her anus, the next finger and middle finger in her Yoni and your thumb on her clitoris, "You are holding one of the mysteries of the universe in your hand."] You can use your left hand to massage her breasts, abdomen, or clitoris. If you massage the clitoris it's usually best to use the thumb in an up down motion, with the rest of the hand resting on, and massaging the mound. The dual stimulation of right and left hands will provide much pleasure for the receiver. Continue massaging, using varying speed, pressure and motion, all the while continuing to breathe deeply and looking into each other's eyes. She may have powerful emotions come up and may cry. Just keep breathing and be gentle. Some women have been sexually abused and need to be healed. A giving, loving and patient partner can be of immeasurable value to her. If she has an orgasm, keep her breathing, and continue massaging if she wants. More orgasms may occur, each gaining in intensity. In Tantra this is called "riding the wave."
In ending the massage, slowly, gently, and with respect, remove your hands or your cock, depending on how far you've gone. Allow her to relax and enjoy the afterglow of the Yoni massage. Cuddling or holding is very soothing as well. As you learn to master the Yoni Massage your sex life will be greatly enriched and you will learn a great deal about feminine sexuality.
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